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Faithful- God's Character


Through different seasons of my life I increase my understanding of and appreciation for different components of God.  When I didn’t have a consistent father figure in my life, I needed God as a father to the fatherless (Psalm 68:5).  In middle school and high school my pastor constantly reminded me that God is perfect (2 Samuel 22:31) and so being made in his likeness I strove for excellence in EVERYTHING I did.  Then in college I learned to rest in the sufficiency of Christ, that no achievement of mine could ever make me worthy of the sacrifice God already made for my salvation (Philippians 3:3-9).  The God of wisdom (Proverbs 2:6), the God of forgiveness and mercy (Ephesians 2:4-6), the God of compassion (Psalm 145:9), there are many qualities and characteristics that contribute to the composition of who God is.  During this season of my life, my heart is focused on God’s faithfulness. 
The word faithful is an adjective with many definitions.  Most of which, are relevant to God. One definition is “true to one’s word, promises, vows, etc.  The Bible is God’s word and it is filled with page after page of promises from God.  One of these most fundamental promises is that God will provide for our needs.  Scripture says:
“And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19
“The young lions suffer want and hunger; but those who seek the Lord lack no good thing.”  Psalm 34:10
I have seen God prove time and time again that he is faithful to provide for my needs, before I even know what they are.  When I was young kid, in a single income, single parent household this was fulfilled by God providing additional income opportunities for my mom.  God also provided people from our church family and community to come along side us and invest in me and my brother on a regular basis.  Later, God provided me with an incredible husband who possesses traits I didn’t even know I would need my husband to have.  In my current season of life, God continues to provide relationships with people who are ready and willing to mentor me and push me to grow. 
God is calling me to pursue a God-sized vision and dream.  As I take small steps of obedience, he shows me over and over that he is faithful to provide for my needs, long before I even know what they are.  In conjunction with the pursuit of this vision, I have started a Faith Jar.  Inside the jar I have several mementos to remind of the ways God is faithfully providing for the needs of the vision.  The mementos include a business card, notes of ideas jotted down, a paperclip, and several mustard seeds.  As I observe God’s faithfulness, time and time again- my own faith grows.  Someday soon, I’ll need a bigger Faith Jar. :)

Another definition of faithful is, “steady in allegiance or affection; loyal; constant.”  In chapter 136 of the book of Psalms, God’s word tells us that “his steadfast love endures forever.”  This chapter doesn’t say it once or twice.  This chapter reassures us of God’s unconditional love in every single verse, TWENTY-SIX TIMES!  And that’s just one chapter of the Bible.  God’s love for me never changes.  It is always constant, no matter how many times I screw up. This is hard to believe for a lot of people, but I am not one of them.  Thanks to my mom and a few other people, I am pretty accustomed to receiving unconditional love.  But if I’m being completely honest, I have a hard time grasping that God’s unconditional love for me is not unique.  God has the exact same love for you. 
When I was a teenager, I convinced my mom and step-dad to let one of my friends come live with us.  When I asked for this, I was basically picturing a long, extended sleepover where my friend was just “my guest”.  But to them, they gained a daughter.  I was shocked and even a little jealous as they treated her the exact same way they treated me.  She got a cell phone, and Christmas presents, and my mom bent over backwards to give my friend things she thought were important.  I didn’t realize how much they did for me, until I saw them doing it for somebody else.  Somebody, who really didn’t even “deserve” it in my teenager logic.  I find myself falling into this same pattern as an adult in my relationship with my heavenly father.  Of course he loves me unconditionally, he’s my dad.  Yet somehow, in my mind I deserve this love and some others do not, but this is not what scripture says.  God loves each and every one of you the same way he loves me.  No, you didn’t do anything to deserve this unconditional love, but the truth is- neither did I.  This is simply a part of God’s faithfulness

Psalm 136 doesn’t say, his steadfast love for me endures forever.  That prepositional phrase is not in scripture, because NO ONE is excluded from God’s love.  Not only does he expect me to be okay with that, he expects me to give each of you the same love.  Regardless of whether or not I think you “deserve” it.  With time, I came to love my friend like she was my sister (still do) and I am striving to love each of you as though you are my brothers and sisters.  It is HARD and believe me, I’m pretty terrible at it, but I am so thankful for the perfect example God has given me.  Not only does his love for me never change; his love never changes, period. He loves you, me, and everyone else the exact same.  He is that constant and steady in affection, faithful.
 “So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other.  Just as I have loved you, you should love each other.  Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”  John 13:34-35

Here is the full definition of faithful:
1. strict or thorough in the performance of duty: a faithful worker.
2. true to one's word, promises, vows, etc.
3. steady in allegiance or affection; loyal; constant: faithful friends.
4. reliable, trusted, or believed.
5. adhering or true to fact, a standard, or an original; accurate: a faithful account; a faithful copy.
6. Obsolete. full of faith; believing.
It is amazing to me that these definitions can seem so different but all point back to one component of God’s character.  As I read through these six definitions I think of specific times in my life when God has proven that each definition is applicable.  Right now, I’m clinging to his promises knowing that he is true to his word and reliable.  Every time I come before him prayer I am humbled and encouraged by how much he believes in me.  I am grateful that no matter how much everything else around me may look like turmoil, God is constant.  God overwhelms me time and time again with his faithfulness.

Lord, You Are Faithful
By : L. A. Keim
Lord, you are faithful,
even when I fail,
your words still hold true
and your promises prevail.

Lord, you are faithful,
it’s intrinsic to who you are,
you know every hair on my head
and the name of every star.

Lord, you are faithful,
I know this to be true,
the proof is in my life
and the things you’ve brought me through.

Lord, you are faithful.
each and every day,
when the obstacles of life look like mountains
you show me the way.

Lord, you are faithful,
your love never changes,
though I allow my circumstances
to cause emotional ranges.

Lord, you are faithful,
in my highs and in my lows,
I steadily seek after you
and pray that my faith grows.

Lord, you are faithful,
even when I’m not,
through the blood of your son,
my righteousness was bought.

Lord, you are faithful,
unconditionally you love me,
your forgiveness and your mercy
set me and others free.

Lord you are faithful.

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