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Okay, Martha!

TTTT: I’m too busy serving others to exercise.

Truth: If you’re modeling after Christ, you’re going to get your steps in.

 

I used to say, “I’m too busy serving other people to be consistent with an exercise routine.”  I believed that I was modeling after Christ, making sacrifices for others. 

I told myself that caring for the church body was more important than caring for my own body.  But I was ignoring this truth- I AM a PART of the church body!  If I truly believe that caring for the church body is important, then it’s impossible to justify neglecting the care of my own body.

Scripture is clear that it’s not okay to show favoritism in how we treat people within the church (James 2:1,9), but don’t overlook the fact that that includes YOU!  You are “people within the church.”  If you’re prioritizing caring for the church body, then prioritize caring for yourself. 

Moreover, the New Testament tells us that the body is the temple (1 Corinthians 3:16-17).  If you’re neglecting caring for your own physical body, you’re neglecting caring for the temple.

Jesus said, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” (Matthew 22:39) <<<Don’t leave yourself out!  It doesn’t say love your neighbor MORE than yourself. 

And then there’s the inspiration for the title of this post- the story of Mary and Martha (Luke 10:38-42).  Martha is a classic example of choosing serving others over what is “necessary.”  Jesus commends Mary’s choice, not Martha’s.

So again, these can’t co-exist: you can’t say that you’re too busy serving others to exercise.

Yes, being willing to put others first is part of the gig, but taking time to exercise is one way that you can make sure you’re staying healthy.  If you’re too busy for exercise and the other forms of self-care, you’re not living a sustainable lifestyle.  You will burn out, eventually.  You will be the one that lets others down because you have overextended yourself.

It’s the classic quality versus quantity dilemma... 

You can serve 4 people but be inconsistent and unreliable, OR you can serve 2 people really, really well and take care of yourself in such a way that you can continue to serve those 2 people as long as needed. 

Which strategy is going to have more of an impact on the lives of others?

Extending the second scenario, if those 2 people imitate you and serve 2 more people well, then you’ve multiplied your effectiveness.  Consider the scenario of serving 4, if you’re letting them down, are they even going to want to imitate you? 

Jesus ministered to others AND exercised. 

It’s estimated that he walked over 3000 miles during his 3-year ministry.  That’s an average of about 3 miles a day.  He got His steps in!  If you’re modeling after Christ, lace up some tennis shoes and start walking!  Minister to the people you encounter in your neighborhood and/or the new community you find at your gym.  THEN- you’ll be ministering to others AND exercising, that’s what Jesus did. 


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